packages: add Element, enable Steam; fix remote sudo; overhaul docs
- Add element-desktop (Linux) and element cask (macOS) for Matrix
- Enable Steam + gaming stack on laptop (was false)
- Grant NOPASSWD for nixos-rebuild on laptop so remote one-liners
work without a TTY; all other sudo commands still require password
- Docs: fix stale references (configuration.nix, darwin/domains/,
darwin-export.sh, modules/secrets.nix, unified-terminal.md);
add modules/server/ and profiles/ to all structure trees; update
server status from Planned → config complete; macOS Sequoia → Tahoe;
correct WiFi card and macmini RAM; rewrite REFERENCE.md