feat: auto-connect Tailscale and pre-seed Nextcloud on desktop hosts
- Add encrypted tailscale-auth-key secret (laptop + user keys only)
- Wire services.tailscale.authKeyFile and openFirewall on all desktop hosts
- Add XDG autostart entry to launch nextcloud-client --background on login
- Pre-seed nextcloud.cfg with server URL and username on first activation
- Note 90-day key expiry (re-auth required 2026-05-29)