clean up stale Evented-era comments across codebase
now that Backend is Io.Threaded, remove references to cross-Io
constraints, Evented fiber context requirements, and Uring thread
warnings that no longer apply. the historical context is preserved
in docs/evented-attempt.md and docs/notes.md.
no behavioral changes — comments only.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>