fix: SDL probe in child process, SDL off until dlsym refactor
Binary crash from linker loading libSDL3→libgbm→iris_dri.so before
main(). Needs dlsym-based loading to avoid link-time dep. SDL off
in oven builds for now. Probe improvements kept for future use.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>