oven: track all server modules + fix papers git-add -A nuke
Adds all oven server modules to the repo so they survive redeploys.
Key fix: papers-builder.mjs changed from `git add -A` (which staged
deletions of the entire repo) to `git add papers/ system/public/papers.aesthetic.computer/`
so it only stages paper output files.
Also includes infra configs (Caddyfile, systemd unit) for reference.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>