switch over to now-merged `atproto/identity/redisdir` (#507)
This is just a copy of `automod/directory`, in a new package location,
and will be maintained/used by other services in addition to just
automod.
There was one very small tweak of the API which is to pass an int for
size of local (in-process) caching (this was hard-coded as 10k
previously).