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22+template:
33+slug: better
44+title: Being better
55+subtitle: My epistemic breakthrough to better living
66+date: 2024-12-19
77+---
88+99+A year and a half ago, I decided to go completely vegan. Actually,
1010+scratch that -- completely *plant-based*. I only went vegan about a year
1111+ago[^1]. It took six months for the reasoning to actually *click*. It's
1212+kind of like an optical illusion: you know it's an illusion because it
1313+says so, but it still takes you a while to actually *see* it.
1414+1515+[^1]: I use the term "vegan" to describe ethical vegans.
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1818+1919+When it did click, I couldn't unsee it; I couldn't unthink it. Total
2020+paradigm shift. *Why* contribute to suffering when we -- those with
2121+privilege, living in modern society -- can completely do without it? Of
2222+course, most people have yet to even look at this particular optical
2323+illusion, let alone experience the [illusory
2424+unravelment](https://gappa.atharvaraykar.com/atharva/vocal-fry-and-illusory-unravelments)
2525+that follows.
2626+2727+Vegans, and to some extent, vegetarians reading this, may already know
2828+what I'm talking about. I'm choosing to describe the moment this
2929+epiphany occurred, as when I started "being better". To be clear, this
3030+isn't in a "better than you" sense, but rather, a more holistic
3131+betterness -- for myself, other beings, and the planet as a whole.
3232+3333+This has by far been the best decision I've made for myself -- one that
3434+has not only improved both my mental and physical health but also opened
3535+up my mind to entirely new epistemic frameworks like effective altruism,
3636+transforming how I reason about moral responsibility. I have learned to
3737+*think* more deeply.
3838+3939+There's a lot more I can say, but I've found the most powerful lever was
4040+moral consistency. Most of us already live by a shared set of moral
4141+principles: we condemn abuse and believe causing unnecessary suffering
4242+is wrong. Moral consistency is simply about extending that compassion
4343+beyond pets and charismatic wildlife to all sentient beings. The values
4444+are already there; we just need to align our actions with them.