add post-event, post-delete, account, and identity handling to JetstreamConsumer
Part A: tracked author post creates buffer a PostSnapshot with zero counts
into a second buffer (snapshotBuffer), flushed alongside engagement events
on the same 500ms / 1000-row schedule with shared cursor checkpointing.
Part B: every post event inspects embeddedPostUri and buffers a
kind='quote' engagement event when the embedded author is tracked.
Part C: post-delete events for tracked authors call tombstonePost immediately.
Part D: account deleted/takendown events remove the DID from the in-memory
tracked set, mark the user deleted in SQLite, and bulk-tombstone all their
post snapshots.
Part E: identity events for tracked users update the handle in SQLite.
New deps added to JetstreamConsumerDeps: markUserDeleted, updateUserHandle.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>