fix: group auto-tagging reactivity and mode inheritance
Three fixes for group mode auto-tagging:
1. Group mode inheritance via lastFocusedVisibleWindowId: When opening
URLs from cmd palette while in group mode, the new window now inherits
group mode from the last focused visible window (fallback when the
direct opener like cmd palette doesn't have group mode).
2. Publish tag:item-added events on auto-tag: All auto-tag code paths
(autoTagIfGroupMode, openWindow trackWindowLoad, did-navigate, popup)
now publish the tag:item-added event so the groups UI refreshes
reactively. Previously they called tagItem() directly without
publishing, so the UI never knew items were added.
3. Groups addresses view refresh: The debounced refresh handler now
reloads addresses for the current tag when in addresses view,
not just tag metadata.
Also: rename tentacles extension to helpdocs, disable by default,
update page loading glow to use border/outline (avoids webkit-mask clip).