docs: reorganize README sections, complete examples list
- Move Server Threads and Streaming above Shared Memory
- Move Transfers beneath Pipelines (before Shared Memory)
- Move Graceful Shutdown and Load Balancing to their own sections
- Add server-threads and benchmark-dispatch to examples list
- Change -- to - in examples list
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>