monopam/status: report canonical URL, filter off-origin legacy URLs
Previously [Remote missing] showed whatever URL [sources.toml] declared
as [source], which for a renamed subtree was the legacy name (e.g.
[ocaml-claude] reported as [ocaml-claudeio]). Push now goes to
[origin_base/subtree], so that is what should be flagged when missing.
[Old fork] now considers all URLs declared in [sources.toml] (both
[source] and [upstream]) that differ from the canonical URL, then keeps
only the ones hosted on our own origin. External upstreams like
[anil.recoil.org/...] are not ours to delete and were producing false
positives.