fix: cap DuckDB memory and remove backfillChildTables
Set DuckDB memory_limit=512MB and threads=2 to prevent FTS shadow
table rebuilds from consuming all container RAM alongside V8.
Remove backfillChildTables() — was a one-time migration, child rows
are already populated during normal indexing and backfill.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>