feat: add on-commit hooks and push notification delivery
- Add on-commit hook primitive with collection filtering
- Add APNs HTTP/2 push delivery module with JWT auth and token self-cleaning
- Add _push_tokens table and registerToken/unregisterToken XRPC endpoints
- Add PushConfig to defineConfig
- Wire fireOnCommitHooks into indexer flushBuffer (creates) and processMessage (deletes)
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>