Add diff command with fetch caching
- New `monopam diff` command shows commits from verse members for
repos needing attention (where they are ahead or diverged)
- Implements 5-minute fetch cache to avoid repeated remote fetches
- Cache stored in ~/.cache/monopam/fetch-cache.json
- Use --refresh to force fresh fetches
- Shows commit list with hash, subject, and author
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>