cue/load: be more permissive with file loading
- allow single _tool.cue files
- allow hidden cue files (.foo.cue)
Fixes #127
Fixes #123
Fixes #136
Change-Id: I1909d078cf42dbde9e83fdaf8fafe31e5a7473cf
Reviewed-on: https://cue-review.googlesource.com/c/cue/+/3482
Reviewed-by: Marcel van Lohuizen <mpvl@golang.org>