vaxis: enable da1 parsing, use futex timeout to return from query
Now that DA1 parsing is done, block the queryTerminal function until the
DA1 response is received, or a 1 second timeout elapses. With this
functionality, move certain events into Vaxis's realm of handling: IE
enabling kitty keyboard, unicode mode, etc
Signed-off-by: Tim Culverhouse <tim@timculverhouse.com>