feat(sheets): color-code cell references in formula bar to match grid highlights
Cell references in the formula bar now display with inline colors that
match the colored range highlight borders shown on the grid. Colors are
applied when editing (focus/input) and cleared on blur for clean display.
Handles cross-sheet refs, absolute refs ($B$2), range refs (A1:B5),
and quoted sheet names. Adds 7 new unit tests for colorMap rendering.
Closes #112