docs/code: scrub internal management-repo references
Drop references to internal sol pbc paths (`extro/cmo/...`,
`vpe/workspace/...`, `cpo/specs/...`, `cto/playbooks/...`) and to
internal tooling skill names from comments, docstrings, and design
docs. Where the substance is load-bearing, keep it and rephrase as
"sol pbc internal engineering notes" / "sol pbc internal brand canon."
Largest piece: docs/design/pairing.md drops ~13 parenthetical citations
to /home/jer/projects/extro/vpe/workspace/hop-solstone-pairing-wave-5-*
scope docs that public readers can't reach anyway. The decisions and
their rationales remain; only the unreachable internal-path citations
are removed. Local repo refs (`convey/...:NN`, `apps/...:NN`) are
preserved so the design doc stays useful in the public repo.
Public-repo housekeeping; no behavioral change.