slab: refill sheaves from all nodes

__refill_objects() currently only attempts to get partial slabs from the
local node and then allocates new slab(s). Expand it to trying also
other nodes while observing the remote node defrag ratio, similarly to
get_any_partial().

This will prevent allocating new slabs on a node while other nodes have
many free slabs. It does mean sheaves will contain non-local objects in
that case. Allocations that care about specific node will still be
served appropriately, but might get a slowpath allocation.

Like get_any_partial() we do observe cpuset_zone_allowed(), although we
might be refilling a sheaf that will be then used from a different
allocation context.

We can also use the resulting refill_objects() in
__kmem_cache_alloc_bulk() for non-debug caches. This means
kmem_cache_alloc_bulk() will get better performance when sheaves are
exhausted. kmem_cache_alloc_bulk() cannot indicate a preferred node so
it's compatible with sheaves refill in preferring the local node.
Its users also have gfp flags that allow spinning, so document that
as a requirement.

Reviewed-by: Suren Baghdasaryan <surenb@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Hao Li <hao.li@linux.dev>
Signed-off-by: Vlastimil Babka <vbabka@suse.cz>