mm/memcontrol,alloc_tag: handle slabobj_ext access under KASAN poison

In the near future, slabobj_ext may reside outside the allocated slab
object range within a slab, which could be reported as an out-of-bounds
access by KASAN.

As suggested by Andrey Konovalov [1], explicitly disable KASAN and KMSAN
checks when accessing slabobj_ext within slab allocator, memory profiling,
and memory cgroup code. While an alternative approach could be to unpoison
slabobj_ext, out-of-bounds accesses outside the slab allocator are
generally more common.

Move metadata_access_enable()/disable() helpers to mm/slab.h so that
it can be used outside mm/slub.c. However, as suggested by Suren
Baghdasaryan [2], instead of calling them directly from mm code (which is
more prone to errors), change users to access slabobj_ext via get/put
APIs:

- Users should call get_slab_obj_exts() to access slabobj_metadata
and call put_slab_obj_exts() when it's done.

- From now on, accessing it outside the section covered by
get_slab_obj_exts() ~ put_slab_obj_exts() is illegal.
This ensures that accesses to slabobj_ext metadata won't be reported
as access violations.

Call kasan_reset_tag() in slab_obj_ext() before returning the address to
prevent SW or HW tag-based KASAN from reporting false positives.

Suggested-by: Andrey Konovalov <andreyknvl@gmail.com>
Suggested-by: Suren Baghdasaryan <surenb@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-mm/CA+fCnZezoWn40BaS3cgmCeLwjT+5AndzcQLc=wH3BjMCu6_YCw@mail.gmail.com [1]
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-mm/CAJuCfpG=Lb4WhYuPkSpdNO4Ehtjm1YcEEK0OM=3g9i=LxmpHSQ@mail.gmail.com [2]
Signed-off-by: Harry Yoo <harry.yoo@oracle.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260113061845.159790-7-harry.yoo@oracle.com
Signed-off-by: Vlastimil Babka <vbabka@suse.cz>