io_uring/kbuf: switch to storing struct io_buffer_list locally

Currently the buffer list is stored in struct io_kiocb. The buffer list
can be of two types:

1) Classic/legacy buffer list. These don't need to get referenced after
a buffer pick, and hence storing them in struct io_kiocb is perfectly
fine.

2) Ring provided buffer lists. These DO need to be referenced after the
initial buffer pick, as they need to get consumed later on. This can
be either just incrementing the head of the ring, or it can be
consuming parts of a buffer if incremental buffer consumptions has
been configured.

For case 2, io_uring needs to be careful not to access the buffer list
after the initial pick-and-execute context. The core does recycling of
these, but it's easy to make a mistake, because it's stored in the
io_kiocb which does persist across multiple execution contexts. Either
because it's a multishot request, or simply because it needed some kind
of async trigger (eg poll) for retry purposes.

Add a struct io_buffer_list to struct io_br_sel, which is always on
stack for the various users of it. This prevents the buffer list from
leaking outside of that execution context, and additionally it enables
kbuf to not even pass back the struct io_buffer_list if the given
context isn't appropriately locked already.

This doesn't fix any bugs, it's simply a defensive measure to prevent
any issues with reuse of a buffer list.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250821020750.598432-12-axboe@kernel.dk
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>