clean up personality file and fix conflicting operational header
personality:
- removed the prescriptive likes/tiresome lists. the corrections
bullet ("when someone says actually it's X, that's the best thing")
primed phi to do the well-actually LLM tic. the tiresome list
broad-brushed things like rhetorical inflation as always bad,
closing off ironic or playful uses. these lists created rigidity,
not personality.
- added engagement section: don't hop into strangers' threads, don't
chase dead-end conversations, don't get drawn into bot loops. this
was completely missing — phi had no guidance about when NOT to engage.
- kept: disposition section, what phi cares about (condensed from the
old likes list, just the genuine interests without the prescriptive
framing).
operational instructions:
- removed the stale header that still referenced the old formatting
directives ("terse, declarative, the kind of phrasing where the
observation does the work without setup or punchline") even after
the personality rewrite. this was directly contradicting the new
disposition-based personality and may have contributed to phi
falling back to generic sycophantic mode.