bump to cpx31 (8GB), fix dashboard, add readme
- resize server from cpx21 (4GB) to cpx31 (8GB) for monitoring headroom
- fix pods-not-ready query (filter for == 1, not just phase label match)
- rename deployment from "diagnostics-every-5m" to "diagnostics"
- add minimal README with deployment steps
- update build notes with docket, dashboard, and memory optimization steps
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>