fix DuckDB lock contention from grafana datasource plugin
the motherduck DuckDB plugin was holding an exclusive write lock on the
live analytics.duckdb, blocking all flow writes. add a busybox sidecar
to the grafana pod that maintains a snapshot copy every 60s — grafana
reads the copy, flows own the live DB.
also stagger tangled-items to :02 (was :00 with gh-notifications) to
avoid the two ingestion flows contending on DuckDB writes.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>