fix indigo relay coverage gap: bump account limits, fix cronjob auth, raise default limit
- bumped per-host account limits for 16 over-limit hosts via changeLimits API
- fixed reconnect cronjob phase 2: /admin/pds/list fetch was missing auth headers
- added RELAY_DEFAULT_ACCOUNT_LIMIT=10000 env var to prevent recurrence
ref: https://bsky.app/profile/bnewbold.net/post/3mgtbaicg322f
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>