tighten relay config, add collectiondir disk i/o dashboard
- remove RELAY_LENIENT_SYNC_VALIDATION (sync v1.1 transition over)
- reduce RELAY_REPLAY_WINDOW from 24h to 2h
- sum() connected PDS hosts to dedupe across pod restarts
- enable kubelet scraping for container-level disk i/o metrics
- add collectiondir disk i/o panel (container_fs reads/writes)
- bump prometheus memory limit to 1Gi for extra scrape data
- add deploy-monitoring recipe for targeted monitoring deploys
- improve backfill script: progress tracking, ETA, baseline awareness
- update README: indie hosts backfilled, ~2200 connected hosts
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>