tidy docs: move OOM postmortem to notes, update architecture
- move INCIDENT.md → docs/notes/ingester-oom-firehose-widening.md
- update architecture.md: 2x enrichment throughput, metrics section
(5-min actor deltas, 5-min search buckets, traffic normalization),
add actor_deltas migration to scripts list
- track add-enrichment-columns.sql migration script
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>