prepare ReleaseSafe deploy: 8 MiB stacks, doc updates
bump default_stack_size from 4 MiB to 8 MiB — TLS handshake path
needs ~134 KiB in ReleaseSafe (tls.Client.init 84 KiB + KeyShare.init
48 KiB). only touched pages count as RSS.
symbol analysis of cross-compiled ReleaseSafe binary shows reader
thread per-frame hot path uses ~2.7 KiB of stack. the thread pool
(f0c7baf) moved all heavy work off reader threads, so the 3.9 MiB
per-thread RSS from the incident should not recur.
also updates docs to reflect thread pool architecture (design.md,
deployment.md, README.md) and adds readiness analysis to incident doc.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>