fix: harden event stream spec compliance, update docs
- ignore unknown frame types instead of persisting as #identity (spec forward-compat)
- align blocks size limits with lexicon maxLength (2000000, 10000)
- update docs with current memory numbers (~1.2 GiB after CA bundle fix)
- fix websocket.zig link to point at fork
- document shared CA bundle, DID dedupe, migration interleave in design.md
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>