ops: reduce relay identity cache from 5M to 500K entries
memory was climbing past 6.75 GiB with the default 5M identity cache.
eriko confirmed cache size scales linearly with memory. fig runs a
full-network relay on a 4GB Pi at ~2GB. reduced RELAY_IDENT_CACHE_SIZE
to 500K and GOMEMLIMIT to 3GiB — now stable at ~2.5 GiB.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>