feat: add zlay deployment configs, infra, and reconnect tooling
- zlay helm values, ingress, servicemonitor, dashboard
- zlay terraform (hetzner k3s, separate from Go relay)
- reconnect script + cronjob for periodic PDS re-crawl
- update gitignore for zlay kubeconfig and nested terraform dirs
- docs: hacks, updated architecture/backfill/deploying
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>